He who conceals a transgression seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates intimate friends. Proverbs 17:9
Is spreading gossip our talent? If so, I suggest we bury it. When we hear a story that could be damaging to someone, we have the option of concealing it or spreading it around to others. Damaging stories are seldom completely true, with shades of half-truths. Love can cover a multitude of sins, but spreading gossip can separate many friends. When someone comes to us with a story about another, let's refuse to keep the story going. The gossip, the listener, and the injured party, may all be salvaged with love and compassion.
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